FENG SHUI FOR YOUR MASTER BEDROOM
Advice on romance in the bedroom
The master bedroom is one of the most important rooms in any home. The ideal
place for the master bedroom is at the back of the house, but unfortunately this
not always possible.
Reasons why it is not good to have the master bedroom at the front of your home
are:-
It can cause interrupted sleep patterns for the couple sleeping in
the master bedroom.
Causes quarrels and disharmony between the couple.
The master bedroom can absorb the negative Chi energy from car lights street
lights, power poles and other poison arrows from the environment surrounding the
front of your home.
With Feng Shui we have cures to overcome the problem of the master bedroom being
placed at the front of your home.
FENG SHUI PRINCIPLES CAN REINFORCE POSITIVE THOUGHT.
We have all experienced relationships losing that zing and intrigue they have
at the start. Some couples don’t even recognize that their relationship has
entered a stagnant period. Life has become so hectic with trying to live up to
the expectations of today’s society, they forget the relationship needs constant
attention.
My philosophy is that maintaining relationships will be the hardest job we
commit to, and we need to work on our relationships everyday. There is so much
advice available to help repair any type of troubled relationship, but first
there is a need to recognize when your relationship is in trouble.
Through the principles of Feng Shui, I will endeavour to assess your bedroom and
home and seek to change the negative/stagnant energies in your bedroom to
passionate and harmonious energies. Having changed these energies, you will want
to spend more time in the bedroom meeting on a physical and emotional level.
Your “Love, Marriage And Relationship Sector” is the far, right-hand corner of
the home viewed from the front entrance. I find that if this sector is cluttered
with old stuff and dead things, the woman of the house is likely to be lacking
in happiness and in satisfaction with the relationship to her life partner.
Further, the shortage of “Ying” (female) energy might influence the woman of the
house to become more masculine.
When entering the master bedroom after an argument:
Stand at the entrance of the bedroom and assess how you feel. When you enter the
room, do you feel comfortable? If you don’t, then the room needs cleansing.
To cleanse the room you need to open all the windows and the door, to let the
positive energies flow in and to get rid of energies from the people who have
agued in this room. Play meditation music, light some sandalwood incense and
take a smudge stick and walk around the whole room to cleanse the room of
negative Chi energy, and don’t forget to smudge the mattress. When you have
completed your smudging always put the smudge stick out by rubbing it in some
sand.
After you have finished smudging, place some rock salt in each corner of the
room to absorb any negative energy entering the room. The salt needs to be
replaced once a month with new salt.
As I have said before, everything in this room should be in pairs. Have a
bedside table on each side of the bed and evenly spaced from the bed, because if
one bedside table is closer than the other, that person will dominate the
relationship. You need to place prints of lovers and flowers to help enhance the
love and understanding in your relationship. It is important to have green
plants or silk flowers to harmonies the energies of the master bedroom.
This is only some of the advice I can give you to improve and increase the
romance in your life. Other things I can advise you about are where to place
your bed and the type of bedhead you have, and how to decorate your bedroom to
give a feeling of unity and how to stop a third person entering the relationship
and causing trouble.
HOW TO INCREASE YOUR CHANCES IN THE BEDROOM
There are plenty of studies showing this fact, look them up on the web.
Thinking of buying a TV for the bedroom? Think again — it could ruin your
sex life.
A study by an Italian sexologist has found that couples who have a TV set in
their bedroom have sex half as often as those who don't.
“If there's no television in the bedroom, the frequency (of sexual
intercourse) doubles,” said Serenella Salomoni whose team of psychologists
questioned 523 Italian couples to see what effect television had on their
sex lives.
On average, Italians who live without TV in the bedroom have sex twice a
week, or eight times a month. This drops to an average of four times a month
for those with a TV, the study found.
For the over-50s the effect is even more marked, with the average of seven
couplings a month falling to just 1.5 times.
The study found certain programs are far more likely to impede passion than
others. Violent films will put a stop to sexual relations for half of all
couples, while reality shows stem passion for a third of couples.